Wednesday, March 30, 2016

End of Malice

About a month ago I blogged about a Hip Hop duo/artist I grew up listening to that went by the name of Clipse/Malice. The group was very successful in the rap game. One half of the group Malice who now goes by the name No Malice called it quits in 2009 and did a complete 180! He changed his life of drug dealing, smoking weed, sleeping with multiple woman to a life with God. No Malice is very open about his life testimony and recently dropped a documentary speaking about his old life vs his new life.

My brand Be Your Own Dad is all about turning negatives to positives and No Malice's story is a perfect example. Not just for the brand but for anyone living a life they feel they shouldn't be. In this documentary, No Malice shares there was always a feeling of not belonging! Have you ever felt that?

I'm a proud Christian and I was raised in the church. As I get older I'm not as close with my spirituality as I once was, but I often find myself in situations where I don't feel like I belong. It's as if my spirituality reminds me that God is still with me. So, this documentary hit home! Meaning I can relate to No Malice's story and I'm sure others can too. Two thumbs up in my book! The great thing is No Malice has the chance to share his story. Many others who have gambled in the life that he has are either dead or in prison. Click the link below and listen to a man that has done it all and turned his negative into a positive! 



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Is Hollywood ready for a Host with a STUDDER!?!

I recently posted a personal video to my Facebook page that's been receiving some traffic. I opened up about my studder and how it has effected me as I make my transition into the Hollywood world. The feedback I've received has been motivating for me so I wanted to share the video in my blog as well. What are your thoughts?



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Monday, March 28, 2016

Is Tyrese the Super-hero of R&B?

This past weekend the Super-hero of R&B aka Tyrese Gibson released his short movie visual "The Black Book" for his most recent album "Black Rose". I mentioned "super-hero" because Tyrese made it known as he was on his press tour a few months ago that he was going to SAVE the sound of R&B. He mentioned the genre of R&B that he was introduced to when he first began his career in music is long gone. I completely agree; the state of R&B music that I grew up to love is slowly fading away. R&B music in the 90s was about love and what it meant to the artist. Now, the music consists of talking about popping bottles and having sex with multiple partners each night. WHAT HAPPENED TO THE 90s FEEL? One of my favorite memes floating around in the social media world is:
I'm a huge fan of Tyrese's music. A few of my favorite songs till this day are "Sweet Lady" and "How You Gonna Act Like That" by Tyrese. Even though those are hits from the 90s he still is capable of making a hit record. Tyrese went off on a rant during a radio interview and challenged other R&B artists to make a hit song WITHOUT a feature from another artist on the track. Is Tyrese in the position to challenge other musicians?!? As a matter of fact he certainly is. His single titled "Shame" off of the album "Black Rose" broke records around the world. The song was #1 on billboard for 16 weeks straight. The album itself was #1 in 15 countries too! So...R&B artist around the world are you going to let Tyrese run the show?!? We shall wait and see.
Two of my favorite tracks off of the album "Black Rose" are "Addict" and "When we make love". I'm a Hip Hop fan but R&B got to me first as a young child. This short film posted below is basically different visuals for each track put into one story that coincides with each other. In the end, Tyrese gives his audience a dope visual story that goes hand in hand with a dope album. Check out the video below and let me know what your favorite part of the story was?


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Friday, March 25, 2016

FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 5

Every Thursday catch me on the FTESWL x BYOD podcast! We post the show at 8:30 on Thursdays pacific every week. This week Kosher and I broke down the trending topic of the week. 
Kosher and I talk about Katt Williams and the madness going on around with him in the news. Adrien Broner is caught up in a felonious assault charge and aggravated robbery right before his fight in 8 days. Kosher gives his take and believes it is just a bad look for him. Deangelo Russell records Nick Young talking about cheating on his girl Iggy Azelea. Too many man codes have been broken and this is just wrong how would you react if this was your teammate out to get you?

FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 5



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Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Stevie J and Joselyn go to Hollywood Season 1 Episode 8

Stevie J and Joselyn go to Hollywood is FINALLY OVER. I enjoyed doing the AfterShows. I was disappointed with the actual show because I watch Love and Hip Hop Atlanta once and while. Stevie J and Joselyn do keep you entertained. They keep you entertained by the constant bickering of going back and fourth. That worked for me when they have 10 minutes out of a 45 minute show. But, when you have a whole half hour each week to keep me entertained...then I need more. Show me something about Hollywood that I wouldn't regularly see. Don't just show me the usually nonsense I would see on Love and Hip Hop. O well.... Check out the aftershow for episode 8 and let me know your thoughts!


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Monday, March 21, 2016

LA REID's Sing to ME is a MUST Read!

This past month my focus and attention has been on reading the powerful memoirs of LA Reid's "Sing to ME". After watching a few promo interviews for this book including watching Power 105.1 Breakfast Club interview featuring LA Reid himself, I had to step out out and purchase the book. I've always been a major Hip Hop and RnB fan. So when I heard this book explains the creation and beginning of these two music genres I had to scratch my itch.

To be completely honest the beginning of the book was boring. I'm a 90s baby, so reading about La Reid's musical inspirations and who he admired growing up was good to know but I didn't have the knowledge of the artists that he spoke of. The introductory chapters of the book explain La Reid's uprising and journey of becoming a music artist. He was born and raised in Cincinnati and ultimately joined many different bands in pursuit of music. Reid would fail as a music artist but his different experiences of touring and getting a band together would ultimately help him in his career as it continues on.

Besides the beginning the book really had my attention. I gave up a Friday night out to continue reading this book. Without spoiling the book, Reid would fail many times and overcome his failures on numerous times when creating the legendary story that he now holds. But, we are talking about the same man that discovered the legendary group TLC! La Reid is the same man that produced legendary song "The End of the Road" in the 80s. In Dj Khalad terms La Reid is the "MAJOR KEY" to success. #iconalert La Reid is responsible for the many successful music careers of Toni Braxton, Outkast, Mariah Carey, Rihanna, Pink, Kanye West, Usher, Justin Beiber, and many more. Do I even have to continue on!?! Just re-read that catalog I just listed.

La Reid was one of the first CEOs to cross musical genres and create superstar artist in each genre. I liked that he shared personally pictures taken throughout the years of his many friends and artist. For example, he has pictures with music greats Micheal Jackson and Whitney Houston. He shares inside stories about Micheal Jackson joking on Prince, Left Eye of TLC reaching out to him after burning her house down, and Rihanna reaching out to him after her incident with Chris Brown. Reid was apart of the many stories that flooded our magazines and news outlets for weeks. My favorite inside story is when La Reid and his wife Erika hung out with Jay Z, Beyonce, and Usher one night in the mountains. The group sat around a fire, listened to music, and smoked weed. I like to hear when successful people do normal everyday activities it puts me on the same level as them lol In this great memoir, La Reid tells all and doesn't disappoint his reader.

This book was so great that I went out and attempted to purchase a piano! lol I always told myself that I will learn how to play the piano and become a musician. This book inspired me to begin my musician journey but the store didn't have any pianos available lol. I will learn how to play before my time on this earth is taken.



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Thursday, March 17, 2016

FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 4

Every Thursday catch me on the FTESWL x BYOD podcast! We post the show at 8:30 on Thursdays pacific every week. This week Kosher and I broke down the trending topic of the week (Nate Robinson to the NFL?), 50 million dollar high school football stadium, and the BYOD inspirational story of the week. Check out the show below and listen in next week!

 FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 4
 
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MTV's Catfish Season 5 Episode 4

If anyone is a fan of the MTV Show Catfish than you have to show love and join me every Thursday at 7:00 P.M. Pacific time on the Catfish Aftershow. You know ima bring it straight up every episode and I need you to comment along. This episode was great because anybody that has gone through a break up can relate. Brandon had his heart broken and he was looking for somebody to make him forget his relationship. Whoever he was talking too was perfect to HIM but it wasn't who he thought she was. I said its someone who was addicted to what the-dick-did lol Check out the recap for Season 5 Episode 4:

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Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Stevie J and Joselyn Go Hollywood Season 1 Episode 7

Stevie J and Joselyn go to Hollywood is still airing.....unfortunately. Don't get me wrong I enjoy watching Joselyn in tight dresses, but that's not enough to keep me entertained. Check out the aftershow for episode 7 and let me know your thoughts!



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Monday, March 14, 2016

The Perfect Match Review

This past weekend I went to see the new movie "The Perfect Match" starring all of Black Hollywood's sexiest actresses. I'm talking about Cassie, Paula Patton, Lauren London, Dreya, Dascha Polanco, and many more. Without giving away the movie the story is about Charlie who is played by Terrance J, a player who gets convinced to hang around the same woman for some time. Not expecting to catch feelings Charlie keeps Eva around who is played by Cassie. The bachelor and would be bachelorette enjoy each others company but good things must come to an end. In the end, Charlie's experience with Eva changes his look on woman.

My opinion of "The Perfect Match" is it was a good romantic comedy. Terrence YOU DID GOOD! I can't speak for everyone but I always dreamed of driving fast cars, earning a lot of money, and getting with hot chicks. I'll give it a 7/10 rating. It had a little bit of a boring plot line but the comedy from the characters kept it going. All of the cast have great supporting roles that helps the movie in its entirety. Also, they did a good job using slang that the young hip generation like myself use now. I'll definitely recommend the movie to anyone. Check out my review below:


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Thursday, March 10, 2016

FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 3

Every Thursday catch me on the FTESWL x BYOD podcast! We post the show at 7:00 on Thursdays pacific every week. This week Kosher and I broke down the trending topic of the week (Daymond John Interview), Kendrick Lamar surprise mixtape/album, and the BYOD inspirational story of the week. Check out the show below and listen in next week!

FTESWL x BYOD Season 1 Episode 3

 
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MTV's Catfish Season 5 Episode 3

If anyone is a fan of the MTV Show Catfish than you have to show love and join me every Thursday at 6:00 P.M. Pacific time on the Catfish Aftershow. You know ima bring it straight up every episode and I need you to comment along. This episode I saw right through the "player" and his ways. Was I right or wrong? Check out the recap for Season 5 Episode 3:
 
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Tuesday, March 8, 2016

"Get That Dirt Off Your Shoulder"

I've recently been following another blogger @ivycoco23 who posts relatable content based on beauty, life, and style. She happens to embellish all three categories so I can understand why she's an expert. Her most recent post titled "The Faces of Emotions" touched upon controlling our emotions in negative situations. I liked it because she speaks the truth about staying positive and how it can further you in life. I also said:

“Every action doesn’t deserve a reaction” said by someone smart lol. I repeat this phrase to myself very often. Coming from an area where pride and egos are very high and must be defended at all times I’ve learned that you don’t have to be on defense at all times. Just like Jay Z put it “get that dirt off your shoulder” aka don’t worry about it and keep it moving. This will bring you a long way.





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Stevie J and Joselyn Go Hollywood Season 1 Episode 6

Today, I did my weekly Aftershow for Stevie J and Joseline Go Hollywood. The full panel was in the building so we had a blast taping. Check out our episode 5 recap below!


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Monday, March 7, 2016

Interview with Daymond John

Just finished watching a great interview on Power 105.1 Breakfast Club that featured Daymond John. Daymond John is a multi millionaire that created the very successful clothing line FUBU in the 90s. Now, you can see him on your television screen on the hit show Shark Tank. Daymond is currently on a press tour speaking about his most recent book "The Power of Broke". (Looking to purchase soon) In this specific interview, he drops a few tips on how to be a successful entrepreneur. He also shared a interesting stat that 42% of all entrepreneurs (or millionaires) suffer from dyslexia. Dyslexia also known as reading disorder, is characterized by trouble with reading unrelated to problems with overall intelligence (wikipedia.org) So, I wonder much like Charlamagne asked "Is there a relationship between dyslexia and being a successful entrepreneur?" Check the interview below and comment your thoughts!

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MTV's Catfish Season 5 Episode 2

If anyone is a fan of the MTV Show Catfish than you have to show love and join me every Thursday at 6:00 P.M. Pacific time on the Catfish Aftershow. You know ima bring it straight up every episode and I need you to comment along. This is the recap for Season 5 Episode 2:
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Friday, March 4, 2016

Kendrick Lamar's New Project

If you haven't heard #Kendricklamar pulled a Beyonce and dropped a unexpected mixtape/album. If you have Apple Music go look for it! The new project is called untitled unmastered! 


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Thursday, March 3, 2016

The Transformation of No Malice

In 2002, the hip hop dynamic duo Clipse struck fame pretty fast after releasing their single "Grinding" off of thier first studio album Lord Willin produced by The Neptunes. The group Clipse was formed of two brothers that go by the rap names Pusha T and No Malice. Since 2002, Clipse became a household name in Hip Hop because of the impact of their hit single "Grinding". I remember being at the lunch table in school and my classmates and I would mimic the beat of the song by beating our fists on the table. Grinding was such a hit that you couldn't go a day without hearing it being played on the radio. If you need a refresher check the video out below:

Clipse would continue to make hit songs in the 2000s such as "What happened to that boy", "Mr. Me Too", and "When the Last Time". The lyrical content the group would often use referred to money, woman, and drugs. This wasn't out of the norm because Hip Hop artists in the 90s and 2000s would often rap about their "street life" and what they dealt with. In 2014, brothers Pusha T and No Malice  would end their rapping group due to "pressure from the Feds". No Malice, the older brother to Pusha T, ended up making a great spiritual change and found God. In recent interviews, No Malice speaks on his relationship with God and how he uses his platform to spread the word of God.

I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ and I find it fulfilling to hear a Hip Hop artist speak on the life he once lived and his current life that's is a path with God. Even though No Malice is no longer making songs with his brother their relationship is still strong. No Malice now lives a life guided by God and you can watch his most recent interview on the Breakfast Club below: 


No Malice has a great life testimony story of using your negative as a positive.

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Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Stevie J and Joseline: Go Hollywood

Yesterday, I sat down with my co-hosts for Episode 5 of Stevie J and Joseline: Go Hollywood. I wasn't all that entertained by the episode but my co-hosts thought different. Check out the aftershow below and share your thoughts in the comments!


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The REAL scoop on The Rap Game Reunion and what happend!?!

Yesterday, I filmed the finale Aftershow for The Rap Game. We pretty much covered everything that happened during the Rap Game Reunion show. But, I got the scoop on a few things...when the show aired the editing showed a clip where a few of the contestants were going back and fourth arguing. Then, the clip was cut and when the show returned 3 out of the 5 contestants were gone from the set. SO....what happened?

As discussed on my Aftershow my co-hosts and I agreed that the production team probably didn't want to bring the Lifetime network or The Rap Game show any negative energy or press. With that said it wouldn't be right to show any fighting of any sort especially being that this a show that cares to a young demographic (12-18). Check out the Aftershow below if you missed it:
But, the question still remains....WHAT HAPPENED ON SET THAT 3 OF THE CONTESTANTS HAD TO LEAVE?

After the reunion show was filmed here in LA my co-host and I were able to meet up with the cast and grab a bite.Not everybody made it to the dinner table though....Be sure to check my instagram @beyourowndad for the video of the cast and I. Now, I refuse to reveal names but as a superfan/host of the aftershow it's my duty to give all my followers the information that I come across. I was told that an actual fight went down and fists were thrown! It became so serious that contestants were forced to leave the set. One contestant had to go to the hospital, another contestant left with a battle wound, and another left with a story to tell. Who was involved and what happened to who is up to the contestants to share. I'm just a journalist.

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