So this post is for the ladies! I got your back fellas. This is: How to get your potential man....
So ladies let me paint the scenario: your interested in a guy and think he is cute. But, you don't know if he's interested in you...so what should you do? What you don't want to do is play the eye looking game all night with him. If you're interested in him than go after him! Being aggressive is very attractive. Let me guess your saying "O no! I'm the woman he should come up to me!" In a perfect world you are...still wrong!! Where on earth/universe/galaxy does it say the man should always be the agressor.....ill wait. What if he hasn't seen you yet? Then you will go home disappointed saying "guys are assholes he didn't even notice me!" Ladies if you can be aggressive enough to get a job, purchase groceries, or put gas in your car than you can go introduce yourself to the guy.
What do you say when your finally approaching him? A good phrase these days is...."Hey whats up hello I seen your pretty ass soon as you walk thru the door" lol i'm just playing. But, seriously a simple "hey how are you i'm..." will do. If you really want to get his attention mention "I saw you from across the way and wanted to introduce myself". Why say this? Because if this is a man that deals with a lot of people on a day to day basis than you clarified that your speaking to him on a personal vibe. Anybody that has learned the technique of networking knows that every conversation is a possible connection to something Business wise! Notice how i capitalized the B! From there on don't make it awkward and let him know that your feeling him through conversation.
You may be asking "How do i do that"? Ask him about his interests. Don't go to the question "what do you do?" Because 1. He may not enjoy what he does 2. You shouldn't want to sound like a gold digger (unless thats what your about) 3. He might not have a job. If 3 is an issue with you than your really not feeling him like you thought. When you begin to ask about his interests a bulb will click in his head. Reason why is your asking about him and not about what he does. Now if you cant get to introducing yourself to this guy than once again you're really not feeling him like you think. I'm out...
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